Oh I hear ya. I am not in any way saying wood is better than steel for a lot of applications but there certainly is a difference in the way wood and metal react to stresses. The Golden Gate bridge is indeed made of steel, suspended from wires. High rises are also made with cement and steel cores, but are engineered to move in a quake. Many of them are on rollers or pads to help absorb quake forces. If a high rise was made of just steel set in a cement pad as many envision, it would have a fairly high probability of catastrophic failure in a quake.
My tank weighs about 14,000 lbs. and it's on wood. But, there is not much room under it and in fact I only have a couple of blowers mounted below it. However, the wood is only as good as its fasteners in the event of a quake. Your steel beams will have better fasteners and nyvp's stand is welded together so that could be considered better fasteners too. I am happy with the wood but I sure could use the space under the tank! :lol: