Awwwww you said bank accountS! I warn you, from a man that is 1 month away from his 10 year anniversary, keep your accounts seperate! Best thing we ever did and it saved our marriage, litterally. Its a hard concept for young couples to get their heads around but the times done already changed, men AND women now have jobs that pay equally, needs and wants that have no hierarchy...its just a disaster for marriages these days to share finances. If you can agree on some basic bill structuring and have joint savings you still get that fuzzy feeling of being married without the midnight screaming matches over her 300th pair of the same fing pair of shoes and your $300 ugly brown frag you HAD to have! lol im serious.