To answer one question, I just looked at my first post, was 2 January's ago. So I've been trying to address this for well over 2 years......
And for consistency, I'll usually go at least a 2 months, if not longer when trying something
The quote in Timfish's post is exactly what my next move is....
"Our crystal clear aquaria come nowhere close to the nutrient loads that swirl around natural reefs"
I read an AWESOME thread here last night, 'the secret to colorful, heathly corals....obvious to some, elusive to many'
Almost like a lightbulb came on! I try not to get too excited because I've failed so far, and my little brain doesn't comprehend all the scientific stuff, but......
I think my problem the whole time has been good husbandry, but no food/nutrients in the column.
So, without getting into the technical stuff I don't understand, I think I've been WAY underfeeding, (barely once a day, a small pinch of pellets for 4 fish), and am gonna feed way more than that, because I think my maintenance is good enough to get the bad stuff out after/while it's deteriorating.
Should get some more fish too, and take out a PILE of xenia. Just hate to throw away something living tho;(
So, if my little brain understood that post, basically want a lot in the water comumn, but suck out the detritus regularly before it turns bad?
Is frozen food still good after exp date, maybe just not as good?