I ordered 4500K whites to replace my 10,000K whites, its just very very white and i didn't like the color. However, i have not tested if i will end up with half 10,000K and half 4500K or just full out replacement. I'll start on that tonight.
I can't comment on the drivers, i decided not to use any pre-made one so i could have more control over the LEDs.
My ratio of white to blue is 2:3, and i think that will be fine when my whites are a little less blue. But 1:1 with cool whites might be good too.
AS for the heat sink, for me it ended up being down to cost. I could get a larger (just a bit) heat sink from the same guys, with shipping counted in as well, than i could get from heatsinkUSA and their shipping. That didn't really make any sense to me, but i got the bigger and cheaper one and its perfectly fine.
Only thing i really wish is that they offered a heat sink without powder coating on it. But i had the means to remove it, so i did.