Seems like a lot of vastly over generalized statements here, as mentioned color has to do a lot with the coral and light. Some colors do better under 6500K and some do better under 20,000K. Also, usually the only reason 6500K look like a "pee" color is because the water is a "pee" color not the bulb. If you do not keep up with your water chemistry then the 6500K bulbs will show it a lot sooner than the 20,000Ks. Even if your not perfect with keeping up with the water a pair of actinics can really help to whiten it up.
You can get good colors with either because there is a LOT more to color than light, but as I mentioned some colors looks better than others under certain lights. When it comes to picking a bulb it is personal preference and really depends what you like. Personally, I like a really bright tank so I stick to lower Kelvin bulbs. However, the dimmer tanks are starting to appeal to me, and one of these days I may head that direction and go with a higher K bulb.