I would like to hear your experiences with this. From what I gather, it seems as though everyone has had issues with this happening.
I on the other hand have been lucky and have kept many pairs with the corresponding female successfully for years.
I've had a spawning pair of bathyphilus for 2 years and now a pintail pair with the female staying very female for months.
I think if you are keeping 1-2 species with its female it's fine. But I notice the changing starts happening when there are too many species being mixed in large community tanks. Perhaps the male is too distracted keeping the female suppressed with numerous other wrasses, and the female takes the opportunity to change.
So far in my tank with one or two dedicated fairy species with their females, things go smoothly and the males interact with the females pretty well. Maybe Singapore water is full of estrogen
I on the other hand have been lucky and have kept many pairs with the corresponding female successfully for years.
I've had a spawning pair of bathyphilus for 2 years and now a pintail pair with the female staying very female for months.
I think if you are keeping 1-2 species with its female it's fine. But I notice the changing starts happening when there are too many species being mixed in large community tanks. Perhaps the male is too distracted keeping the female suppressed with numerous other wrasses, and the female takes the opportunity to change.
So far in my tank with one or two dedicated fairy species with their females, things go smoothly and the males interact with the females pretty well. Maybe Singapore water is full of estrogen