What do you choose? The reef tank or the woman?
So my finace has decided that she wants me to live in Japan for a least a couple of years. I guess its been on her mind for sometime and she decided to fill me in this week.
The only thing really keeping me here is this reef. The job, I can find another. I don't own a home and have been waiting to buy one after we're married. My car is paid off. My friends and family, well, I'll always hopefully always have them. But the reef is my hobby, and obviously a big part of my life. I gave up drinking 5 years ago (last Sunday

) and this hobby has really helped fill a big hole in my life. Setting up a reef tank in Japan just isn't as easy as it is here (especially on this scale) and just not option as I'd be living in Tokyo (small spaces).
This possibility has always been on the horizon; however, I thought I had cleared that up before I went forward with this build. Unfortunately, thats just not case. Its something that she really wants me to do, and I know that if I don't go, its only a matter of time before our 6 year relationship ends.
Decisions, decisions....
