OT : Child Custody Help Needed...
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Freed
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Uh, you are going to sell your car as soon as you get it out of the shop where it is getting fixed? Why in the $$%^ would you sell a good car that you need to get to and from a job with as soon as you get it out of the shop.
Aren't you the one complaining about not being able to get to a job because YOU DON'T HAVE A CAR?
You also pay how much per month for rent?
You go ahead are repeat for us please so we can understand why you pay so much for rent but you don't send any money your child's way.
Uh, sounds to me like you have no intentions of sending money your child's way to begin with or you would move into a house/apt. you could afford and you would also take the car when you get it out of the shop and drive it to interviews and then to the job you get after you make it past the interviews.
No sympathy from this computer monitor.
Aren't you the one complaining about not being able to get to a job because YOU DON'T HAVE A CAR?
You also pay how much per month for rent?
You go ahead are repeat for us please so we can understand why you pay so much for rent but you don't send any money your child's way.
Uh, sounds to me like you have no intentions of sending money your child's way to begin with or you would move into a house/apt. you could afford and you would also take the car when you get it out of the shop and drive it to interviews and then to the job you get after you make it past the interviews.
No sympathy from this computer monitor.
SteveOhh
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Simple solution...............if ya don't like it, don't click on it & read it...................but no, morons like you post on a thread that they feel is inappropriate.................isn't that kinda like adding fuel to the fire............
Show me one thread where you've given any valuable information................................................................hehe......there are none.
You originally listed your occupation as a comic...............are you the Armenian Comedien???? No, I think his jokes are better......
But like they say, there's one in every crowd..........................I bet you're that one in every crowd you're in.........
bad santa
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<a href=showthread.php?s=&postid=7998862#post7998862 target=_blank>Originally posted</a> by salt e
LMAO I got an idea...why don't you PM me with a meeting place and a good time for you to point me in the right direction so I can get a life
P.S.T...my car is up and running... no excuses
Tisk...Tisk....Tisk.....Did you honestly think you would only get one sided advice on here. Just because your on RC doesn't mean everyone's going to be on your side. If you cant take any criticisms without resorting to some sort of "lets meet somewhere and handle it" then just stick with the reef topic on this site.
Captain Quirk
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I find it hard to believe what I'm seeing here. I feel like I'm at the playground and the bullies are making their way through the crowd.
If the thread is inappropriate, the notify the moderator. It DID say OT, so I assume it met some sort of requirement.
If you don't like it, don't read it.
If you don't have something constructive to say, sit down and shut the he11 up.
If you can't treat others with respect then go jump in a lake. With an anchor. Chained to your ankles.
His situation is not good by any measure. He's said some things that appear to be emotionally driven. He's got an emotional ISSUE. Taking one liner pot shots at him aren't doing anything but (possibly) boosting the posters ego (in that they made themselves feel better by making someone else look bad...).
He was looking for a referral. He hasn't gotten one. I think it's time this thread wither away to the recesses of "older threads".
Thank you for your order, please pull through...
If the thread is inappropriate, the notify the moderator. It DID say OT, so I assume it met some sort of requirement.
If you don't like it, don't read it.
If you don't have something constructive to say, sit down and shut the he11 up.
If you can't treat others with respect then go jump in a lake. With an anchor. Chained to your ankles.
His situation is not good by any measure. He's said some things that appear to be emotionally driven. He's got an emotional ISSUE. Taking one liner pot shots at him aren't doing anything but (possibly) boosting the posters ego (in that they made themselves feel better by making someone else look bad...).
He was looking for a referral. He hasn't gotten one. I think it's time this thread wither away to the recesses of "older threads".
Thank you for your order, please pull through...
Freed
It's what it's
Uh, he's just looking for some sympathy and ways to justify his actions for not stepping up to the plate and not being a DAD and a good role model for his kid. He's just mad his ex is more of a MAN than he is and is trying to make up for her being more of a parent than him. Sorry, no sympathy here nor will I agree with anyone that says he's a great guy and just needs a hug. He can hug a tree for all I care but I will not give him advice on trying to swindle his way into using a lawyer to make him look like a good guy to fool a court into thinking he is justified for more privileges than he already has.
bad santa
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This is why these type "OFF TOPIC" threads should be addressed in the "DR. Laura" forum. This should be kept strictly for "REEF" discussion. Why would you wish someone to jump in a lake with and anchor chained to their ankles? (Again with the hostilities)....Will you guys(kids) grow up and act mature on this site.
Pseudocolochiru
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Like he said, he is looking for nothing more than a referral. SO if you don't have anything positive to say you can just run along on your merry way. All this person wants is to see his child. PERIOD. If it takes a good lawyer, by god so be it.
Salt E
If you have been providing like you say you have, at least you are attempting to help. I don’t understand why she would make your life so difficult.
viveros1231
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she is salt e's girlfriend. i think she knows whats going on.
Pseudocolochiru
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GF or not that is not the case. I do know him personally and I’ve read and reread his post several times. I can say some things are over dramatized, BUT a lot of it is answered honestly. I know he has things he needs to work out, as far as I see we are all human. We all make mistakes. I’ve seen he has made every effort he can in trying to make things right between his relationship with his son. He has given her money and tried very hard in keeping the peace between them, but she makes it difficult for him to see his son and I seriously don’t know why.
glaudds
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<a href=showthread.php?s=&postid=7998718#post7998718 target=_blank>Originally posted</a> by salt e
lolz Sounds EXACTLY what my GF Apple would say if she read that...lolz...and how convient that you live in Irvine...JUST LIKE MY GF APPLE... and you just started this morning on RC JUST LIKE APPLE SAID SHE WAS GOING TO DO...lolz... and you JUST SO HAPPENED TO LEAVE THAT LAST COMMENT RIGHT WHEN YOU GOT BACK FROM YOUR LUNCH BREAK...shouldn't you be looking up info on your Moorish Idol nerd :lol: anyways...welcome to RC babes
Wow...I just noticed that one of pseudocolochiru's interests was her "hubby". Now I'm totally confused.
dodgerblew
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I was a single father who raised my son on my own for 12 years and truthfully this thread upsets me so I will comment and be done.
The attorney I used was Anthony Hart who at the time was in Century City. There is a family attorney here in the AV who I highly regard, both professionally and personally. Her name is Cherie Yeowell. She has a website howtodivorce.com. If you can't make regular consistent financial assistance for your son, keep in mind that an attorney will charge a large lump sum just to keep on retainer.
Just my opinion but I wouldn't think of airing details of mine and my ex's relationship in a public forum, and I am blown away you would...but to each there own and I will keep my further personal feelings to myself. If your son's mother saw this thread, I don't think she would be to happy with you and its obvious she's not already, according to you. You never know who is hearing or reading your dirty laundry. There are reefers in the Antelope Valley, I can prove that! What would you do if one of them saw this and recognized the situation and alerted your son's mother?
The attorney I used was Anthony Hart who at the time was in Century City. There is a family attorney here in the AV who I highly regard, both professionally and personally. Her name is Cherie Yeowell. She has a website howtodivorce.com. If you can't make regular consistent financial assistance for your son, keep in mind that an attorney will charge a large lump sum just to keep on retainer.
Just my opinion but I wouldn't think of airing details of mine and my ex's relationship in a public forum, and I am blown away you would...but to each there own and I will keep my further personal feelings to myself. If your son's mother saw this thread, I don't think she would be to happy with you and its obvious she's not already, according to you. You never know who is hearing or reading your dirty laundry. There are reefers in the Antelope Valley, I can prove that! What would you do if one of them saw this and recognized the situation and alerted your son's mother?
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