Well since the 6th he has been eating everything in sight. He is back to being a very aggressive eater and I've been overfeeding to make sure he gets enough. A few days ago the female started her, what my grand daughter calls her hoochie mama dance so I may be needing to get ready again very soon.
Lost one sometime last night. Found it this morning, mouth open and gills flared in the back corner where 4dot and mate hang out. Appeared to be another of the larger, assuming, males.