Steve,
I swung by my LFS today, and they had a bunch of beautiful anthias. That's something I've wanted, but I want to ask your advice. I know I'll have to feed them 3x a day, and my wife has agreed to do so while I'm traveling for work (she knows I've wanted these). I've wanted Nemanthias carberryi, but they haven't been available. The LFS has a half dozen 1" female Maldives Lyretail Anthias (Pseudanthias squamipinnis). They have some 2" males, but I believe if I get several small females one will become male. I avoided them until I could post these questions.
If I get 3-4 females with the intention of one becoming male, is there a chance that one or two may be injured or killed trying to become dominant? Is it a more peaceful process than that, or should I just get a male? In addition to the list below, is 4 of these small females (no males purchased) reasonable or too much?
Here's what's in my 1-year-old 6', 125g DT with 190# of LR and good flow (in order of had longest to newest; wasn't ideal but what happened):
1 medium (1.5") Yellowtail Damselfish (Chrysiptera parasema) - will be removed if is a problem, but it hasn't bothered anything else on this list even though it was one of my first fish
1 large (2.5") Randall's/Orange Stripe Shrimp/Prawn Goby (Amblyeleotris randalli)
1 large (2.5") Bicolor Blenny (Ecsenius bicolor)
2 medium (2") Firefish (Nemateleotris magnifica) only time will tell (usually 6-8 months), if you have a pair or two of the same sex
1 medium (1") Yellow Clown Goby (Gobiodon okinawae)
1 medium (2.5") Powder Brown Tang (Acanthurus japonicus)
1 medium (1") Neon Goby (Elacatinus oceanops)
1 small (1") White Banded Possum Wrasse (Wetmorella albofasciata)
Thank you in advance (for this response and all of the others).