So after fighting with Durso returns to silence them and tweaking and adjusting full siphons I finally re did the plumbing to include an emergency drain and a single return. Here's why I am so happy most of my plumbing is fitted with pipe thread tape.
Removed the T from the second return to make the emergency drain and fitted a coupler to the already existing spray bar.
Removed T coming in from left return and ran straight to sump.
Removed and capped pipe from left return to skimmer area since it was no longer needed.
Tested about 7 times between yesterday and today with power outages. Every time the emergency drain handled enough flow to barely let the water level drop in the sump and after about 45 seconds the main drains primed themselves and took over. I am very pleased that by just replacing two T's I went from unsafe and noisy Durso/siphon to full siphon with emergency.