I'm beginning to think that it's possible that the Heteractis anemones that we receive in good condition are dying of starvation. They have a lot of biomass to feed, and I'm sure that they've been off of the reefs for weeks before they make it into our tanks. I'm sure that their energy reserves are depleted and then when we stick them in our tanks we starve them some more because there's a lot of information saying that when acclimating an anemone that it shouldn't be fed. This doesn't really make sense to me, and I don't think that I agree with this anymore. I will argue that the anemone should be fed the day you put it into your tank.
Believe it or not, the baster really worked for me. I don't mean to offer up the hope that this will solve all of the acclimation problems, because I don't think it will. I am posting this here so that hopefully someone else might be able to salvage an animal that is still salvageable or refine the technique to improve the survival of these animals.
In terms of what I did, this was not a fast process and to get it to feed when it had begun to decline took a lot of patience. When I did this the first time, the anemone would not hold onto food and I wasn't really sure what to do. In surgery, if you're unable to eat, we'll put a tube into your stomach or into your small intestine and feed you that way. I figured that I'd give it a try with the anemone and bypass the transport of the food into the mouth. I used mysis because of its small size and a baster because I don't know of any orogastric tube made for an anemone. I'd literally stick the tip of the baster into the depths of the open mouth and slowly offer it food. Not all the shrimp stayed in and bunches of it floated away, but some stuck and remained and slowly this induced the anemone to close its mouth. I tried this everyday. It got little bits when I did this, and apparently this was enough to allow it to survive through the acclimation period. To be fair, the second time that I did this, the anemone wasn't nearly as in much trouble as the first one, but it was enough to get it back to health. Now it's reproduced and I don't regret for a second that I did it..
-B