What do you guys think?

Glad to see you put this "getting out" stuff on hold buddy.

As mentioned further up in this post, your generosity and "Pay it Forward" attitude have paved the way, and influenced many reefers to do the same. You are one of the first "reefers" I met in the Tampa area when I moved down here and got back into the hobby. You said to me "Pay it Forward" when I got that MJ1200 from you, and I have been doing that ever since. I have given away countless numbers/pieces of hardware and frags that always come with "freebies" when someone does get something. I hope that I have/do forward the kindness that you have showed so many people.

On that note, if you need assistance while out of town, I am sure that fellow reefers will come out in droves to aid you. You done it for others, and it will come back to you ten fold. If I was still living over there, I'd be there for ya on a daily basis while you compete in road racing out of town/vacations, whatever. Rest assured buddy, you have the assistance you need to be away and still have peace of mind that when you come home, your Reef has been well taken care of.

As for losing the dedication, it comes back. I went through this for about 2-3 months last year, not long after I automated everything. I worked, played and played, and I felt that I was neglecting the system...I had everything listed on paper to sell it all off. I was slacking off on WC's, changing socks, even cleaning the glass. Then I woke up one morning and that all changed, and I was head first into getting back on track. I think there sometimes comes a plateau in this hobby when we lose interest, and the tank comes 2nd because there's not much to do to it. It's growing out or grown out, you've got a huge top-off system in place, your water is so clear and clean that the socks don't need to be changed as frequently... Basically, it's at it's peak of perfection; where you envisioned it from the start.

I felt pretty lost when I was in that "smog", and really thought I was gonna shut it down. But as mentioned, the drive and desire came back overnight. I'm not sure what did it, but I'm glad it happened, because here I am again, head deep in saltwater/corals/tanks and fish doodoo, and that satisfaction and pride had been completely restored.

I'm glad to see that this post has taken you "off the ledge", and that you aren't going anywhere. Now go change your socks! :D
 
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I would be willing to bet that if you sell everything you are going to lose money. Then 3 months down the road (at max more like 3 weeks) you are going to realize tht you made a big mistake and you are going to have to go out and spend an a*@ load of money to start a new set up. Your gonna wish you never even sold out in the first place. Save yourself the headache and dont sell anything. You have one of the nicest set ups I have ever seen. DONT DO IT PLAYA!!!
 
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From Key Largo in March. I've trimmed down since.

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Yeah, I didn't recognize you in the bike shop yesterday; but knew it was you when I smelled the saltwater coming outta your pores...;) You know salt is in your blood, & you'll never get completely out of this amazing addiction. Glad to hear your brainfart passed...Thanks for the nuc green frag. They're doing great, & I hope the unknown brown stick colors up for you like the tri-color did.
 
Huuuuuuuuuuge congrats on quitting smoking!!!!! I vote for not selling, unless it becomes a financial burden or a strain on your mental wellness.
 
Huuuuuuuuuuge congrats on quitting smoking!!!!! I vote for not selling, unless it becomes a financial burden or a strain on your mental wellness.

^^^ +1 ^^^ about quitting smoking. HMMM...IMO, I think he's long gone past 'mental wellness', tho...J.K. :lol2:
 
Thanks Sam. It's not really forced as much as I feel the dedication slipping away.


I'm in the same boat as u right now.

other interests have taken over (in my case, kayak fishing) and my tank has taken a back seat... i dunno what to suggest....i'm thinking about purging my livestock and hang on to most of the equipment and store it in case i get the bug back.

and gratz on the quitting smoking! i am going thru it now too, been doing the chantix thing the past few weeks. a little smoking on and off these days, but more off than on...thats progress!
 
Hey That's what I was doing. Trying to cut back and chew the gum. Then I told myself I'd never quit that way. I had to just stop completely. 7 days and not one smoke, I can really feel it on the bike. I did 61 miles on Saturday and 43 miles on Sunday. The two group rides on Saturday push it hard, the sprints are 30-32 mph and 24-26 consistently. I could hang on while I was smoking but just a mess and surely headed for a heart attack on the bike. More and more the sprints and higher paces are becoming easier and easier. That is the driving force for me. I ride everyday and everyday I get faster and faster. I finally found something to push me away from them marlboros.
 
it really is just one day at a time with the smoking. I smoked from 16 to 31. swam in HS, trained karate in college, did century rides, you name it. After I quit, i trained for the marathons.

if you ever get overwhelmed call me. and if you drink a beer, dont smoke. even one. it will give you serious cravings.
 
Smoking...what an evil bane on society. There's nothing good that can come from it...can you tell I'm a quitter? I tried the wean method many times and never worked. One day I just stopped and never started again, 16 years ago. Can you imagine how much money I've saved at a pack a day?

Resist the urge and it already looks like your keeping yourself occupied. Good Luck.
 
Thanks guys. I was at a pack and a half a day. Then I was at a half a pack when I said it's only a matter of time before I'm back to full force. That was the day I said no more. Thanks for the encouragement!
 
Do I need to post a pic of my brother's CT scan, or his coffin, to motivate you guys? Nobody wants to be a dead 40 year old father of two, right?

Congrats to all of you who have quit!!!!! And those who haven't, don't make me post the pics.
 
I quit buying years ago and really dont crave them until I see a pack and without even thinking about it I ask for one and then curse myself after. been doing that for years and it really ticks me off
 
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