I did let get out of hand, but honestly I think "elegance coral". and people like him (or her?) hover through the forums waiting to pounce on people and rain on their parade. That to me is just wrong.
If that were true, the staff at RC would have shown me the door a long time ago, and rightfully so. I'm not one that concerns themselves with being to politically correct though. Sometimes, in order to help someone, you have to tell them things they don't want to hear.
I don't post here alot. I view these forums everyday though. I like the pictures. I like the stories, but I don't chime in unless I feel like I have something to contribute. That's why I don't post for 3 months at a time. Even though I thought elegance coral's response to the guy with the new tomato clown was possible the most irresponsibe, and ill timed comment someone has ever made. I didn't say anything, because I had nothing to contribute. Actually, I should have just posted something like, "Nice tomato", but I didn't. So even elegance coral claims he's not trying to be a reef god, I think he would have to be to declare:
- "This is a new fish to you, correct? It looks malnourished. If it were my fish, I'd start feeding it about twice a day with foods like krill, mysis, and frozen variety mixes. I'd soak the food in vitamins and amino acids before feeding. Hopefully, it's just malnourished and doesn't have other issues like internal parasites, or some other sickness that's causing it to lose weight."
From a blury picture he recommends over-feeding and soaking foods. I agree that you're not a reef god, but I don't agree that you don't think you are.
I wasn't going to defend myself against this, because others explained the situation to you, before I had a chance, but you won't let it go. (Thanks to those that attempted to set the record straight.:thumbsup
I started my post by saying, "This is a new fish to you, correct?". In other words, the fishes malnutrition could not be contributed to the care the OP was providing. Malnutrition does not happen over night. If it is a new fish to the OP, they can not be responsible for the fishes malnutrition. If my goal was to attack the OP, I would have said something much different.
Then I went on to say, "If it were my fish"........ I didn't jump down the OP's throat or demand that they do anything. I simply stated what I would do if I had a fish in the same condition. If my goal was to be rude or insulting, I would not have gone into detail about what types of food to feed, how often to feed, or suggest supplementing the food with vitamins.
Granted, my post was not what the OP wanted to hear, but it was what they needed to hear. I don't want to read a thread from them next week wanting to know why their pet died. If someone post a pic of a pet that is ill, and they obviously do not know their pet is ill, isn't it just the right thing to do, to tell them? How can the OP help their pet if no one tells them it is ill?
The pic was a little blurry, but the protruding bones and lack of muscle tissue was obvious. The fish has lost so much weight that in the head on shot, all you can see of the first stripe is where it crosses the spine. The rest of it is sunken in behind the skull. There should be large muscles between the skull and the dorsal fin. A fishes side should be smooth and rounded. The shot showing the side of this fish, showed depressions and bulges from the underlying skeleton.
Feeding a fish twice a day is not "over feeding". Many hobbyists and breeders feed twice a day. In fact, Joyce Wilkerson in her book Clownfishes, suggests feeding two or three times a day. She also suggests using "enrichment products". These are suggestions for fish that are healthy. These measures become even more important for a fish that is malnourished.
I do not think of myself as a "reef God". There is still more about this hobby that I don't know, than I do know. You won't see me over in the SPS forum trying to give advice. You may see me ask questions over there though. I surly won't be over there trying to argue with those experienced hobbyists about SPS corals. Arrogance leads to ignorance. This is a very complicated hobby. When you start getting into animal behavior, it gets real complicated. There is no way anyone could understand how anemone fish behave in a matter of months. It's simply to complicated, and you don't have time to observe clowns as they mature. Someone with a few months experience trying to argue with those with years of experience is just ridiculous. It would be like me arguing with the experienced SPS keepers.