Good comments made by Slief, especially on the issue of silversides, avoid them.
One thing to keep in mind w/ anemone's is what we typically see as signs in other animals as success, is not exactly true w/ anemone's, reproduction/splitting, and also size, size is not a real great determining factor, as they are photosynthetic, they may swell and expand in order to increase their surface area for more light intake, and they may reduce in size adjusting under new stronger light, so bigger does not always mean better.
I've had some anemone's for many years that changed size and color under different lighting or conditions or even changes in parameters, sometimes actually looking better when smaller as they colors seemed brighter.
I also agree a month is a very short time period of observation.