Larger tanks you may save a few bucks a year after several years recuperating the cost of the initial setup on a CARX. I think the benefits of running one aren't necessarily in the money end but on the ongoing maintenance end. Once it's set up and tuned, there is annual maintenance of a quick vinegar/acid bath and pump scrub, media replacing, and CO2 tank refills. Unless you're dosing out of massive containers, you'll be spending more of your time buying and mixing 2 part than you would be working on your calcium reactor. I like the idea of dissolving coral skeletons rather than dosing salts. To each their own. Plenty of spectacular tanks can be found with either method.
The horror stories of calcium reactors are almost always related to regulator failure from cheap parts, leaks from poor craftsmanship, or clogged effluents from ineffecient feed pumping. All can be fixed by getting a nicer regulator, good reactor, and a masterflex pump. But...It'll cost you. I think you should make the decision based on which methodology you prefer on a fundamental level and what kind of time you have to perform maintenance.
You can get DIRT CHEAP dosing pumps and DIY chemicals from the hardware store in some instances, but I wouldn't really trust the reliability of cheap components having had them fail on me in the past. Some get by just fine. One or two failures was enough for me to invest in better gear.
I'm a long time 2-part user, and have owned a working calcium reactor for...7 hours now though (not even tuned yet, still in the test and adjust phase), so take my advice with a grain of salt.