I'm right there with you, been thinking of a downsize and simplification. Much like Nate Rogers did a ways back in the Southern tier. Expense & stress goes down. I've eased back on my maintenance regimen and found that certain corals don't like it. Others that have been almost dormant, have exploded in growth. It's a head scratcher.
So what I've found is that they ALL aren't going to be happy. Whether I'm under the tank everyday, or doing a water change once a month, I can keep my reef happy for very little expense. It's what I need to do for the time being. This might not be an acceptable outcome for someone like Tom (TMZ). I don't love it, but if it keeps a reef in my living room ill take it. We all evolve. We all have to adapt.
Brandon (oneradtek202), has had one of the nicer SPS aquariums in town for a few years (like to think my old 180 held that title for a while....). He has a new job & he just got married yesterday. I know his maintenance routine hasn't been on the top of his priority list lately.
Ebb & Flow.
Pascal had one of he MOST extensive systems I've ever seen. Engineered to the hilt. Collection was an eye popper. New house, downsize, 1 tank under construction. Happens.
Hope I'm not overstepping my bounds talking about you guys. If a newbie goes all in like we all did, God bless you! I hope us local guys have made it a little easier on you, just as guys like Gary, Tom, and even Jedi-Stephen did for me.