Specifically, about clarkii type clowns. I've always seen wild pairs be VERY similar in size. I currently have a pair of allardi, where the female is growing by leaps and bounds, but the male is still tiny. So, how does this work? Does the female completely mature first, and then the male will slowly grow as well? My percs in my reef are several years old, and breed, but the male is less than half the size of the female. I'd prefer to not have this "look" with my allardi... but is there anything I can do?