Reefcentral is a funny place. My opinion is that it is WAY over mod'ed.
Your opinion is noted. However, our experience is that the vast majority of users who have made this the largest saltwater hobbyists' BB site don't agree with you. What we've seen happen, again and again, is a few people get warned about our rules, get kicked off (either for failure to abide by the warning or wanting to tell us their uncensored opinion of our rules), and start (or join) another saltwater site that's NOTHING like ReefCentral. Either the site attracts all of 20 regular members who can tolerate the "freedom" of the site, or the site grows larger, and strangely enough, begins to implement some of the exact same rules we have at ReefCentral regarding conduct and commercial participation. It's funny to watch the more successful sites' user agreements/terms of service agreements go from "say whatever you want, but try to be nice" to one-by-one adopting all of the same rules we have here at ReefCentral.
As for telling people to go elsewhere, the truth is, we simply don't have the time or energy to argue with you about our rules. They are our rules; you can either follow them or not. If not, you will be removed from the community. But that's the great thing about the internet, you can always find someplace more to your liking. Why should we be unhappy and make you unhappy arguing about our rules? Go find something that you like better.
And, as Dino said, we used to have a "free-for-all" forum, with the appropriate warnings upon entry. The problem was, unlike Vegas, what happened there didn't stay there. In other words, the presence of that forum negatively affected the interactions of people in the regular discussion areas. In short, it wasn't worth the trouble.
Kevin