Nemo,
It would be in your best interest to read the entire project post at my site:
http://beananimal.com/projects/silent-and-fail-safe-aquarium-overflow-system.aspx
Once you have read the project page, you may want to browse through the contents of this thread, as most questions have been asked and answered dozens of times. If you still have questions, then post back here and we can help you get sorted out. Just within the last few pages, systems of your size have been discussed.
This will help you understand HOW the system works and what flow ranges it will handle without any modifications.