Just now getting back to look for an answer to my question. I apologize if a stirred up something.
The gist of my point is, I took an existing tank that was operating with 1 durso drain on the 1" bulkhead that was not quiet enough for my liking. Instead of using the 3/4" bulkhead for the return, I used it for a full siphon drain. This takes 99-100% of the water and is completely silent/works great. If it plugs, for any reason, the existing durso will take 100% of the flow my return can provide back to the tank. It will not be as quiet as the silent siphon drain, but it would also need to get plugged to cause a problem/flood. I see no reason to add a third drain. Especially considering that the tank ran for over a year with only the Durso (no backup drain). My modification actually added an additonal layer of protection.
My whole point is: If the overflow/open/2nd drain is sized to handle 100% of your return pump flow, there seems to be no reason to have the 3rd drain. If it cannot handle 100% of your return pump flow, then a 3rd drain is a good idea.
Does this make sense?
I am still setting up this tank, so I can't speak from experience.