Dan, my suggestion is to hold off on adding the sand for now. Part of me wondered if adding the sand was part of the problem in my tank, trapping stuff in the sandbed without any effective way of keeping it clean. You certainly don't want another headache to worry about. Just keep things simple without any major changes for now until the tank is fully recovered. At least there will be fewer potential problems to deal with
I agree with Kenny as well. I am in the process of removing my sand as is. Everytime I do a water change, I will take some of the existing sand out. Good luck Dan.