I have had a mated pair of B&W saddleback clowns hosting an RBTA for 6-8 months. 2 weeks ago I purchased a haddoni carpet anemone. The female noticed it right away and dove in. The male stood with the RBTA. Now, the male is trying to host the haddoni as well, but the female just chases him away. My questions is- if they were paired in the RBTA, why will she not allow him into the haddoni?