I've found great advice from uncleof6. There have been a few things I don't agree with but the majority I most definitely do and have learned from his posts as well. Even just recently in another thread talking about paste vs sealants vs tape.
Please Jason, i'd rather you not get involved as well. Plus, you clearly aren't really willing to talk to me in private anymore, and I really don't want to drag this out anymore than it has to in public.
The problem isn't that there isn't any useful information there, the problem is the absolutist attitude he takes with others. He even helped me out with my 60 cube one time, and I did appreciate that advice, but it makes no sense to treat it as if everyone else's opinions are wrong because it doesn't follow a 3d diagram of a bean animal to a Tee (pun intended?). It's downright condescending at times, and for me to be taking punches for calling him out on this behavior is well, downright insulting to me, and quite honestly, if the mods would have been paying attention would have told him to tame that attitude long ago, but i feel like apparently seniority rules around here and truth, honesty, and facts are given a backseat to that.
And let's not even get into the tape thing. There was an entire thread he dragged out the whole "use sealant no matter what" thing and it turned out the guy had a bum fitting and it wasn't teflon nor sealant nor this other red herring he kept throwing around that was the problem....now you'll see one of the newer threads where someone had a similar problem, both of us suggested hey check the fitting first, try one from another brand, lol. Lesson learned for both of us at least, but running around like a chicken with it's head cut off repeating the same schpeal about sealant over and over again wasn't helping anyone at that point when the fittings simply were faulty or from two mis-matched brands and just didn't for the life of them create a proper seal regardless of what substance was put between them.
Meanwhile, i know people in real life who do commercial aquariums and custom builds and have used teflon for the past 30+ yrs with no dramatic effect, and I trust those people way more than anyone from this forum. It's not that it won't work, it's that you need to know the proper technique and also when to just accept okay these two fittings are basically shot, i mean so much of this stuff is "well, does it work?" If not, try again. I think most people realize that some of these viewpoints are over the top and take it with a grain of salt.
I'd been avoiding that argument with him for a long time, but, since you went there.
i think at some point it ceases being helpful and unnecessary sends people down red herring after red herring. Not everyone wants to cut everything apart and start over, some people wanna know "how can i make this work" and i just see this belligerence towards anything other than this sort of "start all over and do it my way" prescription. It doesn't matter to most reefers whether it's "technically a bean animal" as long as it works safely enough, at some point it all just starts sounding silly.
I don't know, i feel like this absolutist attitude just sucks all the fun out of the hobby for me, that's the honest truth. Half the fun for me is experimenting and coming up with things, not always having to follow some straight and narrow formula is really all what it's about. People are coming up with new stuff all the time, new technology, new pumps, new techniques for all kinds of things, there is no reason plumbing has to be some off-limits thing in regards to innovations or modifications, and ultimately I will always tell people to experiment and test before I tell them to cut it all apart and start over.