Hey Kev, I have not been here in a while (still only get sporadic notification emails from RC). I logged on last night and checked the thread just to see what was going on, only to hear of yet another setback and epic recovery had taken place.
The posts from your father and Tink were tremendous and it is readily apparent that you have no shortage of truly remarkable people surrounding you. I can't imagine posting on a message board in the midst of all of this going on. I am hopeful that since you have rid yourself of the artificial valves, that your recovery will be as remakable as the surgery itself.
I, for one, think that you are making the right move by selling the big tank. But, it is in your blood, so I hope that you do not get away from the hobby entirely (can we really still call it a hobby for you after all of this has transpired?)
Hell, get a nano or a 75! Something managable. I started a nano when I lost my reef after a storn. It helps! It is therapy for your soul! Don't give up on it entirely. I am certain that no matter what size tank that you would go to, you will have no problem getting people here to donate enough frags / corals to have one helluva great looking tank. It is a peaceful and calming part of your life. It is important.
Hang in there Kevin. You have truly been an inspirtation to many of us that have posted or read through this gut wrenching thread. I believe that you are on the road to a miraculous recovery my friend. Cheers! :beer: