How not to build a 750/1500 gallon build thread-Khaosinc 3/5/71-8/30/11

Although we've never met, I feel like I really know you two and am sharing your pain. I've gone through similar situations with family members, and it is a tough, hard, ride.

Hang in there and know that there is a whole community pulling for you.
 
Every time I open up this thread I feel so much pain for the both of you. It has been such a long road for the both of you over the past months. I don't even know what to say. I am sure that if any one can pull through this its K My family will say a prayer for the both of you tonight. Good luck you two and god bless.
 
his stepdad and mom dropped off his truck at our house. all the animals heard his truck pull into the driveway and thought he might be home and waited at the door ever since.
they also went in person to talk to his work. which is a relief because i don't think i can handle seeing anyone today.
i'm kind of in a painful haze right now.
here's the tracker
http://www.peacehealth.org/apps/smartrack/view.asp?fac_mnc=SJH
douglas is the surgeon..many docs assisting...
they told me to take that metal plate out you can't just saw through or pull pins. they have to tunnel into the tissue below it to remove. it's like he's getting gutted.
 
Thanks for the update and the link. I know it's hard right now, and there's nothing I can say to make it better, but we're all pulling for him right now. Hang in there.
 
it's just so hard because last time when he had that infection and they kept his chest open, even though he was heavily drugged he still screamed in agony. the look on his face was complete misery. he struggled to breathe and his eyes showed terror. all i could do was watch and listen to those cries of pain and hold his hand and try to say something comforting in those moments he was conscious.
knowing best case scenario it's going to be like that again..but worse??
i don't know if i can listen to and watch it again. it's tearing me apart. i just keep hearing his screams.
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